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7 habits that make you feel like: Life is stuck, not blooming

7 habits that make you feel like: Life is stuck, not blooming


When you are looking for your own path to success, and are too bored with the numerous articles on social networks or newspaper pages about: "Formula of the world's most successful people", "Doing follow this secret to always be successful in life"...then the habits that are about to be "exposed" in this article may startle you to look back and realize why "My life is always at a standstill, isn't it?" bloom"!

Habit 1: Studying makes you sleepy - Buying books makes you cry about poverty

Don't talk about the two words "Success" as too far away for people with this habit, because just getting better is already impossible!

We have met many people who are "hypnotized" by the idea that if they work hard, sleep less, and go without food for a few days, they are afraid of dying from exhaustion! The harsh truth is: If you work hard, it will take a long time to...die. Just make excuses and reasons that without health, no matter how much money you have, it's useless. In fact, the harder you work, the healthier you will be!
Many young people with strong shoulders always shout determination on social networks, always say they have to study, but as soon as they pick up a book, they fall asleep without realizing it. Worse, they don't regret going out and shopping for millions, but when they see a book that costs hundreds of thousands, they complain that it's too expensive and can't buy it. In the end, after so many years, not only has their knowledge not improved at all, but they have also brought on many bad habits. Gradually, they become lazy and playful, without willpower.

Habit 2: Thinking that "the whole world is not as good as me"

Have you ever seen someone with money and a comfortable life and immediately thought "they have rich parents/family", seen someone successful and thought "they are just lucky"? Never look at other people's strengths but only focus on their weaknesses, this is not as good as you, that is not good enough... In fact, they will not lose any "luck" because of being judged, it's just that when you think "the whole world is not as good as you", you are blocking your own path to success!

If you have not succeeded, please do not think it is due to bad fate, admit that your ability is having problems. Do not blame your job, colleagues, superiors, family... for not helping you develop your talent, basically you do not have any special talent, if you do not invest in knowledge and change your thinking, it will be the same everywhere!

Habit 3: Stubborn, not willing to learn new things

The great scientist Albert Einstein once said "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
You want to succeed but don't want to make an effort - Don't want to learn new things, only when you become outdated do you regret and explain. You keep insisting that you are too good, while the outside world is constantly changing. Only when you are left behind, you realize that you need to make more efforts, but don't know where to start...

Habit 4: Never persevere for more than a few days

There are many people who, when they see something others have, do, or learn, are excited to follow, but after a few days... they get bored and give up!

When they see others being good at English, they rush to find a center, study for half a month and then give up. When they see others diligently reading books, they rush to buy a cabinet, read for two days and then "forget about it" and leave it there. Seeing you go to Yoga, Gym... you also enthusiastically register but after a few days on the road you "get busy sleeping"

Even Einstein admitted "It's not that I'm too smart, it's just that I spend more time on the problem", so what reason do we have to justify our habit of not being persistent?

Habit 5: Illusion of becoming a certain character in the future

We have great dreams, goals to become a completely successful person - that's not wrong, but be rational! Look at where we are and what we can do to realize the ideas in our heads. More importantly, be persistent and make an effort. This world has a principle of "If you don't do it, you won't get it. Do more, get more, do less, get less". Don't turn yourself into a fool who just lies in one place and deludes himself.

Habit 6: “Explode” when touched

Have you ever seen people who are like bombs, no one dares to touch them? They are people who, when they hear someone say something unpleasant about them, they immediately get angry, and when they do something wrong, they refuse to listen to anyone’s criticism. They don’t even listen when others give them good-intentioned advice, they find excuses after excuses, and sometimes they don’t even know what they are saying…

These people never realize their own mistakes. When they fail, they don’t look for the cause in themselves, but instead “go crazy” with the things around them. With such a personality, success is still far away because “they are scared to come near”!

Habit 7: Spend a penny thinking you have the right, others have to serve

In life, there are people who, whenever they are dissatisfied, take out their anger on others, spending a little money and giving themselves power: The courier who sent the goods late immediately demanded a lawsuit, and the restaurant had slow service. Immediately scolded loudly, without any tolerance or understanding. They think money is everything, having money allows them to do whatever they want, in fact, it is no different from being a rich person pretending to be rich. They do not know that people only respect people with virtue, who live humbly and kindly.

Life is always "continuously pushing" you! Success is the destination, but how to get there depends on your own daily THINKING - MINDSET - ACTION. There is always a rule that:

Sow a thought, reap an action
Sow an action, reap a habit
Sow a habit, reap a character
Sow a character, reap a destiny

Your life is rich or poor, noble or humble, not based on the amount of money you have but on your thoughts. If your mind is full of thoughts of laziness, jealousy, blame, arrogance, procrastination, etc., then no matter how many assets you own or how good your relationships are, they will all "suddenly disappear". Remember, this world belongs to those who have a constantly changing mindset and ALLOW YOURSELF TO CHANGE EVERY DAY!